Duh… so simple yet leave it to me to be dumb.

If you want to have a customer avatar on WP, CP or any blog software that uses gravatars, go here: http://en.gravatar.com/

Simply register your email address, choose a password and then upload an image and crop it on their site. Now when you post on any site that uses gravatars your uploaded image should show up next to your name instead of the default system chosen one. πŸ˜€